Episode 10

Episode #10: Does Size Matter in the Military?

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Ever wonder how the U.S. military teaches its personnel situational awareness? They should be taught the best from the best, right?  

This week’s guest, with Marine Corps Hunter training, admitted, “(the term situational awareness is) thrown around the military constantly. Make sure you have situational awareness. We say it all the time, but no one really defines what situational awareness is.”  She then shares throughout the episode how she personally ended up “really defining what situational awareness meant to me and then how it could impact not just how I carried myself, but passing that knowledge along to everyone else.”

Katheryn Basso is a former U.S. Marine Officer trained in the Marine Corps Hunter program.  Her knowledge, understanding, and practice with situational awareness is eye-opening.  More recently, she started the Kadri Clothing Company to shed light on and help fix the problem of gender bias in the military via lack of appropriate clothing options for women.  You can check out more on that here

Listen to this episode of Thrive Unafraid for more on:

  • Defining what situational awareness means to you personally
  • How gender bias still manifests in the U.S. military to date
  • How to use the OODA loop to assess your personal safety
  • How many chances you should give your gut/intuition when it flags a situation or person before choosing to act
  • The importance of practice in personal safety
  • How to form a baseline when entering a new environment
  • And so much more!

Here’s the Ted Lasso link that Doug mentioned.

Dive into this episode chock full of interesting stories, personal experiences, and hands-on advice.

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Episode 9

Episode 9

Episode #9: How to Recognize and React to Stalking Behaviors

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Being stalked is no joke, and in this episode Kelly and Doug dig into controversial topics related to stalking.  What exactly constitutes stalking?  Are there differences in how men and women should and do react to stalking?  How do you stop stalking behavior once you’ve recognized it?  What resources are available to you if you’re unsure you’re being stalked but feel uncomfortable?  And what is the role of intent when talking about stalking behavior?

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It is far too common an occurrence to feel that “off” feeling in your gut or suspect someone might be following you on the streets or maybe stalking you online, but also feel uncomfortable reporting it because you are unsure if you are correct or possibly mistaking the situation.  

Listen to this episode of Thrive Unafraid to learn how to:

  • Determine if you’re being stalked
  • Steps to take if you’re being stalked
  • Where to go for help if you’re being stalked or simply feel uneasy about a situation
  • How to recognize warning signs and trust your instincts
  • How to confront a stalker safely

Kelly shares stories from women who have confided in her about their stalking experiences, how they handled the situation, and Kelly shares further expertise and insight on how to safely interact with a potential stalker or when to skip straight to the authorities.

Gain the confidence to Live Life Unafraid with situational awareness and personal safety guidance from this episode. 

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Episode 7

Episode #7: Common Manipulation Tactics: Are You Being Emotionally Manipulated? with Guest Justin Black

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Do you ever wonder if someone you care about or interact with often is manipulating you?  This week Kelly and Doug are joined by Justin Black to discuss common manipulation tactics, how to identify them, and how to address this behavior.

Click here to download the Guide to Identify the 12 Most Common Manipulation Tactics.  

Justin Black is the man behind the Spycraft 101 podcast, blog, and wildly popular Instagram account, where he teaches about the history of clandestine operations to history lovers, covert ops junkies, patriots, weapons & gadgets enthusiasts, the safety savvy, and the personal-security conscious.  He’s also highly trained in human intelligence and he came onto Thrive Unafraid to discuss threats and human behavior.

Kelly, Doug, and Justin discussed:

  • Common manipulation tactics
  • Is all manipulation bad/wrong?
  • The morality of gaslighting
  • A breakdown on manners
  • Listening to the voice inside you
  • Reading body language and non-verbal cues
  • People-watching to learn tells

Justin also shares enthralling stories about CIA and British Special Operations agents using manipulation tactics in their work or to survive capture.

Join us to learn more about how to keep yourself and your loved ones safe from manipulation in your home, at work, or in public.

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You can find Doug at @texasspydad, or on LinkedIn and Twitter.

Check Kelly’s new book Sharp Women that guides you through embracing your best self-defense weapon – your intuition.    

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Episode 6

Episode #6: When Your Gut Raises the Alarm

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Learn to avoid dangerous situations, how to assess risks and how to react if danger does arise by yourself or with your loved ones.  In this episode, Doug and Kelly discuss the experience of a mom whose gut raised the alarm in a large parking lot with her child.  

Click here to download Kelly’s Boundaries Workbook. Her comprehensive approach helps you take charge of your own personal safety so that you can better protect yourself in any situation.

Learn to:

  • Identify potential threats 
  • Enact physical awareness 
  • Pay attention to your surroundings 
  • Avoid distractions 
  • Create an escape plan, if needed 

They also touch on:

  • Knowing basic self-defense techniques 
  • Trusting your instincts 
  • Personal safety devices 
  • Tips for building situational awareness

Explore the importance of having real conversations about safety and discover practical methods to ensure that you are living in a secure environment. Tune in to learn expert tips on how to courageously move forward confidently in all aspects of life, no matter your current circumstances.

 

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Episode 5

Episode #5: Firearms, Mindset, and Pre-event Indicators: Prioritizing Personalized Safety with Robyn Sandoval

Join as we dig into the expertise of Robyn Sandoval, Founder of A Girl & A Gun Women’s Shooting League.
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Join as we dig into the expertise of Robyn Sandoval, Founder of A Girl & A Gun Women’s Shooting League. A Girl & A Gun is a national organization dedicated to empowering women and teaching them valuable self-defense techniques. In this episode, Robyn dives into the many ways in which firearms can be used to defend oneself. She also talks about her experiences as an instructor and the importance of having a go-to script to use in high stress situations, as well as the potential consequences of not being prepared.

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Robyn began A Girl & A Gun to provide women with an opportunity to learn and practice firearm skills in a safe and inviting environment. With over 80 clubs in every state, the organization has become increasingly popular. Women come from all walks of life and all ages, eager to learn and hone their firearm skills.

Other takeaways from this episode:

  • How to develop a go-to plan when it comes to self-defense
  • How to make quick decisions in potentially dangerous situations
  • How to use improvised weapons when you don’t have a gun
  • What types of training programs and courses are available for self-defense 
  • Why having a supportive community can be an invaluable asset in your personal safety
  • Breathing techniques for stressful situations
  • Different skills and techniques that can be used to improve shooting proficiency

Robyn shares her journey of self-discovery and the challenges she faced in becoming a proficient shooter and trainer. She talks about the importance of gun safety, mastering the fundamentals of shooting, and her unique approach to self-defense, which incorporates both physical and mental strategies and training in other self-defense practices, including jujitsu, knife fighting, and improvised weapons to help ensure a better chance of defending oneself in any situation.

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Episode 4

Episode #4: Red Flags, Stalkers, and Self-Defense: Workplace and Personal Safety

Today Kelly and Doug answer viewer questions, covering the three best practices for keeping yourself safe in all situations: be aware, be confident, and avoid potentially dangerous situations. 
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Kelly and Doug answer four burning questions from listeners in this mailbag episode:

  • What do I do if someone (such as a coworker) is presenting red flags toward me?  How do I approach them about it?
  • How to approach someone in your life that is displaying red flags or harmful behaviors toward others.
  • What do I do if I have a stalker?
  • What self-defense moves should I learn first?

They cover the three best practices for keeping yourself safe in all situations: be aware, be confident, and avoid potentially dangerous situations. They highlight the importance of learning both the knowledge and skills needed to react in any situation. They also discuss different tools for self-defense. 

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Knowledge and experience are the two most important tools in situational awareness and self-defense. Having a basic understanding of self-defense concepts and being aware of your surroundings can help you recognize dangerous situations and avoid them altogether. Additionally, Kelly and Doug discuss various tools that can be used, if needed. It’s important to understand the capabilities and limitations of each tool and practice with it before you need to use it in a real situation. 

It’s our hope that you never walk into any potentially violent experience without preparation. Aside from physical tools, it’s also important to understand your own decision matrix when it comes to escalating or de-escalating a situation. Kelly and Doug emphasize the importance of confidence; having the knowledge and the ability to protect oneself can give people confidence and make them less of a target for bad actors looking for easy targets. All in all, situational awareness and self-defense is a learning continuum. With the right knowledge and practices, you can learn how to protect yourself in any situation.

Ready to join the conversation?  

Follow The Diamond Arrow Group on Instagram and Facebook, and Kelly Sayre on LinkedIn and Twitter.

You can find Doug at @texasspydad, or on LinkedIn and Twitter.

Check Kelly’s new book Sharp Women that guides you through embracing your best self-defense weapon – your intuition.    

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